Anxiety
Signs of Anxiety That May Need Professional Help
In short: everyone feels anxious sometimes, and that is normal. It is a good time to talk to a professional when your worry or fear feels intense and hard to control, keeps coming back for weeks or months, and starts getting in the way of your sleep, studies, work, relationships or daily routine. Anxiety responds well to treatment, so you do not have to wait until it gets worse.
Is it normal to feel anxious?
Yes. Feeling nervous before a board exam, a job interview or a big family decision is a normal human reaction. It can even help you prepare and stay alert. Usually this kind of anxiety eases once the situation passes.
Anxiety that may need help is different. The U.S. National Institute of Mental Health explains that with an anxiety disorder, the anxiety does not go away, is felt in many situations, and can get worse over time. The World Health Organization (WHO) describes fear and worry that are both intense and excessive, usually lasting at least several months, and that interfere with family, social, school or work life.
You are not alone if this sounds familiar. WHO calls anxiety disorders the world’s most common mental disorders, affecting an estimated 470 million people in 2023. WHO also notes that symptoms often begin in childhood or the teen years.
Signs that anxiety may need professional help
No single sign means something is wrong. But consider talking to a professional if several of these are true for you, most days, for weeks or longer:
- Your worry is hard to control. You try to stop thinking about something, but the worry keeps coming back, often about everyday things like money, health, school or family.
- Your worry is out of proportion. The fear feels much bigger than the situation, or you worry about many different things at once.
- It affects your daily life. You find it hard to concentrate, make decisions, finish work or schoolwork, or enjoy time with people.
- You avoid things because of fear. You skip classes, gatherings, commuting or tasks, or you feel you need to stay at home to feel safe.
- Your body feels it too. Common physical signs include a pounding heart, sweating, trembling, muscle tension, stomach problems or nausea, tiredness, and trouble sleeping.
- You often feel on edge. You feel restless, tense or irritable, or have a sense that something bad is about to happen.
- You have sudden waves of intense fear. Some people have panic attacks: episodes of intense fear with a racing heart, difficulty breathing, chest pain, dizziness, chills, or tingly or numb hands. Worrying about the next attack, or avoiding places where one happened, is a reason to get help.
- You are coping in ways that can make it worse. WHO and the UK National Health Service (NHS) both note that alcohol and drugs can worsen anxiety and mental health.
These signs are a guide to when to reach out, not a way to diagnose yourself. Only a qualified professional can assess what is going on.
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger or thinking about suicide, call 911 or go to the nearest hospital emergency room.
Why a medical check-up is also a good idea
Some anxiety symptoms, such as chest pain, a racing heart or dizziness, can also come from physical health problems. NIMH notes that a health care provider may do a physical exam to make sure an unrelated physical problem is not causing your symptoms. If you have chest pain or trouble breathing and you are not sure what is happening, get urgent medical care first.
What a professional will do
A psychologist, psychiatrist or other mental health professional will usually start by listening. They may ask when your symptoms started, how long they have lasted, how often they happen, and how they affect your life. From there, they can help you understand what you are experiencing and plan next steps with you.
In some cases, a professional may recommend a clinical psychological assessment, which uses standardized tests and interviews to understand your concerns more fully. At HealSpace, psychological assessments are done in person only at our clinic in Lipa City.
How anxiety is treated
The good news is that anxiety is very treatable. WHO states that there are highly effective treatments for anxiety disorders, yet only about 1 in 4 people who need treatment receive it.
- Psychotherapy. WHO describes psychological treatment as essential for anxiety disorders. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which helps you notice and change the thought and behavior patterns that keep anxiety going, has strong evidence. It often includes gradually facing feared situations instead of avoiding them.
- Medicine, when appropriate. Some people also benefit from medicine. This is a decision to make with a doctor, such as a psychiatrist, based on your own situation. Do not start, stop or change any medicine on your own.
- Healthy habits. These support treatment but do not replace it when anxiety is affecting your life.
What you can do while you get support
These steps, recommended by WHO and the NHS, can help alongside professional care:
- Keep regular sleeping and eating habits.
- Move your body regularly, even if it is just a short walk.
- Practice slow breathing, muscle relaxation or a few minutes of mindfulness each day.
- Cut down on caffeine, and avoid alcohol and drugs as ways to cope.
- Talk to someone you trust about how you feel.
- Try not to avoid every situation that makes you anxious; facing them in small steps can help.
The Philippine Mental Health Act (Republic Act No. 11036) affirms the basic right of all Filipinos to mental health. Asking for help with anxiety is a reasonable, healthy step, not a sign of weakness.
Frequently asked questions
Is it normal to feel anxious?
Yes. Feeling anxious is a normal part of life, especially before something important or during a hard time. It becomes a concern when the worry is intense, hard to control, lasts for months, and gets in the way of daily life.
Can anxiety cause physical symptoms?
Yes. Anxiety can show up as a racing or pounding heart, sweating, trembling, stomach problems, muscle tension, tiredness and trouble sleeping. Because other health problems can cause similar symptoms, it is wise to have a medical check-up too.
Do I need medicine for anxiety?
Not necessarily. Psychological treatment, such as cognitive behavioral therapy, is a main treatment for anxiety. Medicine is sometimes also used, but whether it is right for you is a decision to make with a doctor, such as a psychiatrist.
Can I have counseling for anxiety online at HealSpace?
Yes. Counseling, psychotherapy and consultations are available online or in person. Psychological assessments are done in person only at our Lipa clinic.
You do not have to manage anxiety alone
Feeling anxious is a normal part of life, and anxiety that gets in the way of daily life can be treated. Noticing the signs and taking them seriously is already an important first step.
If anxiety is affecting your sleep, work, studies or relationships, talking to a professional can help you understand what is going on and find ways to feel more in control. Reaching out early is a sign of strength, and support is available whenever you are ready.
Want to talk to someone about anxiety?
HealSpace offers counseling, psychotherapy and consultations, online or in person, by appointment. Message us on Viber, call or text +63 927 034 9050, or message us on Facebook Messenger. All our contact details are on our contact section.
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Clinically reviewed by Niño B. Galacgac, PhD, RPsy
Head Psychologist at HealSpace Psychological Clinic. Areas of practice include depression, anxiety and mood disorders.
Sources
- World Health Organization: Anxiety disorders (fact sheet) (prevalence, symptoms, treatment, self-care).
- National Institute of Mental Health: Anxiety Disorders (normal anxiety versus anxiety disorders).
- National Institute of Mental Health: Generalized Anxiety Disorder (signs, talking to a provider, physical exam, treatment).
- National Institute of Mental Health: Panic Disorder: When Fear Overwhelms (panic attack symptoms, avoidance).
- NHS: Generalised anxiety disorder in adults (symptoms, treatment, self-help).
- Republic Act No. 11036, the Mental Health Act (Sec. 2, declaration of policy).
This article is general information, not a diagnosis or a substitute for professional advice.